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Is your Narcissist Psychopath EX better off without you?

After being discarded by a narcissist or psychopath, most victims obsessively wonder if their ex is actually better off without them. It’s a common curiosity to have especially in the condition that the narcissist leave their victims in; sometimes questioning their own validity or purpose in this world.

While this type of question can be of a subjective matter, many people feel that only the extreme, machine like Terminator-type of psychopath is legitimately better off without you after making their calculated decision that continuing to have you in their life would not benefit them in any way.

These types of psychopaths are on a clear cut mission and get no value in torturing you for fun or boredom because they have much larger, global scale type of goals and probably saw you as a temporary asset. Once they got what they needed, they discarded you the same way we discard a scented candle once it’s been completely burned out and useless to us.

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Why Do White Knight Beta Males FALL PREY to the FEMALE NARCISSIST?

Female narcissists are only after one thing: The highest level resource of narcissistic supply.

This means, they will target the man with the greatest potential of providing them with everything they want or need in order to arrive at their goals.

This usually includes, money, fame, status, shelter, skill sets, discipline, knowledge, etc… and of course great sex (although female narcissists are known to use sex as a bargaining tool and will take it away as a form of torture and punishment at any given moment.)

Female narcissists, like most women, are very attracted to a man who possesses all of these assets, especially one with charm, confidence, and oozing with masculinity; The Alpha Male.

Alpha males are the female narcissists’ primary targets for they can extract the most narcissistic supply from them while experiencing an incredible life and feeling totally satisfied in the bedroom (until it’s time to devalue and discard their victim as per their default disordered programming.)

So where does the beta male fit into all this? Why do white knight beta males fall prey to the female narcissist or psychopath?

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GASLIGHTING Is The Narcissist’s Secret Weapon Of Mass Destruction

It seems to me in recent times, the term gaslighting has been receiving a lot more buzz than ever before. Or maybe it’s just my RAS (reticular activating system) focusing on anything and everything relating to psychopaths and narcissistic abuse. Either way this is a term I had never heard of in my life until I got out of a toxic relationship with a narcissist.

I still remember the first time my mentor explained to me what gaslighting was after I had given him details of all the things my psychopath ex would do to me.

It was fascinating to learn that there was an actual term for this type of wicked behavior, making it much easier to explain the level of psychological horror I had experienced while dating my narcissist ex.

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My Friend is DATING a Psychopath Narcissist – Why Won’t They LISTEN?

So your friend is dating a psychopath narcissist?

Hold on tight. We’re in for a ride.

Here’s a scenario every survivor of narcissistic abuse will come across at some point or another, but most likely sooner than you think.

It’s the inevitable situation we’ve all found ourselves in not long after solving one of our biggest challenges or learning something of excellence that forever altered our lives for the better.

It’s the old time tested urge to tell everybody else what we’ve learned and how they should try things OUR way because it’ll be so much better for them.

In this case we are talking about a situation where our friend is dating a psychopath narcissist but they just won’t listen to our words of advice nor will they take any action in positioning themselves for a preemptive escape.

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Anti-Narcissist POWER and The WAR Against Psychopath Narcissists

Victims of psychopathic and narcissistic abuse (the many) who have healed, recovered and risen above the darkness (the few) develop a keen instinct to spot narcissists a mile away.

It’s like we are given a new pair of glasses which allow us to see behind the mask and facade these toxic creatures masquerade under.

Reaching this level of mastery can take many months or even years of relentless education on the subject, strict discipline in sustaining the No Contact Rule, and a never ending spree of self validating stances and actions against anyone who even comes close to crossing your newly established boundaries.

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Being DISCARDED by a Psychopath Narcissist FEELS like DEATH

Psychopath narcissists love torturing you while they’re a part of your life but even when they’re gone, their poison is still left inside of you, crawling thru your mind like a cancer, warping your every thought and making even the simplest of tasks a nightmare to accomplish.

To the psychopath narcissist, you are just another victim left to decay after being sucked dry of your life force; much like a vampire will leave their prey to rot after feeding on their blood.

Narcissists are predators that feed on your energy, rape your mind and steal your soul. While you are in a relationship with them, you are slowly being poison dripped, gradually molded and groomed into a state of complete hypnosis where you can’t even realize the harm being done to you. Continue reading “Being DISCARDED by a Psychopath Narcissist FEELS like DEATH”

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Why Do Psychopath Narcissists TORTURE Their Partners?

Psychopath Narcissists look like normal human beings on the outside, but don’t be fooled. On the inside they are soulless monsters incapable of feeling normal human emotions like Love and Empathy and for obvious reasons, do not operate like normal human beings.

They are disordered individuals, forever angry and resentful at the world and at themselves. Since they cannot feel any sort of empathy towards another human being, they do not understand why it is that some of their actions cause others pain and grief.

In time they learn to use this lack of empathy as a form of power and control over normal human beings and are able to get away with immoral acts in order to rise to the top of the corporate world or reach Hollywood fame, crushing anyone in their path without a trace of guilt or remorse. Continue reading “Why Do Psychopath Narcissists TORTURE Their Partners?”

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BREAKING No Contact with the Narcissist Psychopath EX Brings Catastrophic Consequences

Psychopath narcissists are experts in finding ways to continue tormenting and mentally abusing you after the discard phase especially if they feel they can still extract more narcissistic supply from you.

This is why going no contact with a psychopath ex is the most effective way to stop the bleeding and the first steps towards recovery from a narcissistic abusive relationship. Continue reading “BREAKING No Contact with the Narcissist Psychopath EX Brings Catastrophic Consequences”

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5 Steps To Going NO CONTACT With Your Narcissist Psychopath EX

You’ve probably already heard about the No Contact Rule when breaking up with an ex but for some reason, the thought of completely shutting all doors behind your narcissist psychopath ex seems impossible right?

After all, you are angry. You want revenge. You want to tell them off. You want answers. You want an apology. You want the truth. You want a sign of empathy. You want them to speak to you with the same warm loving tone that they once did in the beginning of the relationship. YOU WANT CLOSURE.

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NO CONTACT Rule Is CRUCIAL When Dealing With A Narcissist Or Psychopath

If you’ve recently been dumped or discarded by your narcissist or psychopath ex, you are probably experiencing a lot of anxiety, panic attacks, maybe a little post traumatic stress disorder (ptsd) and are probably driving yourself insane by stalking their social media only to discover even more pain and confusion.

You wake up in a panic and your futile attempts to make it through the day, carrying this burden of depression and madness is too much to handle, much less get any of you friends and family to understand what you are feeling and going thru.

You keep asking yourself why can’t you get over your ex, what is it about this one in particular that your mind, body and soul simply cannot let go of despite the narcissistic abuse they put you through?

So you reach for the phone and send them yet another text asking questions, hoping to get some closure or a little empathy for what you are going thru, but…

You get NOTHING. No response. Silent treatment. You’ve been discarded. Continue reading “NO CONTACT Rule Is CRUCIAL When Dealing With A Narcissist Or Psychopath”