Why do psychopaths, narcissists and toxic people have a reputation for being unfaithful in all their relationships? Probably because monsters have no sense of empathy, love or respect for life. Too simple for ya? Ok lets go a little deeper and really analyze this common question.
First things first, not everyone that cheats on their spouse is a narcissist. It’s true that some people just have a knack for cheating and ruining a great partnership because they were just too weak to resist temptation or too greedy to appreciated what they had.
It’s also true that some people are just sexually unhappy in their marriages and feel that what their partners don’t know won’t hurt them. This doesn’t make it right but at least they keep their infidelity in secret and make sure their partners don’t ever find out. More on this later…
Sometimes it’s too much hassle to divorce so rather than going thru all that paperwork, some couples just cheat behind each other’s back and continue co-existing like if nothing has happened.
Let’s be honest. None of this is sounds healthy at all, but compared to a relationship with a narcissist, trust me it’s paradise. When it comes to a psychopaths, sociopath or narcissists, cheating and infidelity is inevitable.
They are wired to destroy everything they touch.
Loyalty is foreign to a narcissist, among other admirable virtues such as love, respect, honor, love… the list goes on.
The wicked part about it though is that the narcissist WANTS to be caught. Yes you read that correctly. The narcissist wants you to catch them cheating on you so that they can watch you suffer and fall apart in front of their eyes.
They will leave clues and pieces of evidence that they are being unfaithful in plain sight for you to see and fuss over. Of course, if you bring it up, they will simply gaslight you and make you think you are crazy or guilt you for daring to make such an accusation. And if you keep it to yourself, it will only drive you crazy and eat you up from the inside.
Both options are excellent sources of narcissistic supply for your tormentor who will feed off of whatever demise you choose for yourself.
Remember folks, psychopaths are only interested in narcissistic supply and they are constantly seeking more since it is never enough. They crave that attention, praise, and chivalry anywhere they can get it from and believe me, they have multiple sources of it. You are just the temporary sucker. And by the time the narcissist starts leaving traces of infidelity around, they are already grooming someone else behind your back.
This doesn’t mean the narcissist didn’t cheat on you before, as a matter of fact, it’s more than likely the narcissist was unfaithful from the start of the relationship. However, they just didn’t want you to know just yet since you were still being groomed and did not yet qualify for a dishonorable discharge.
Do not feel bad that your narcissist was unfaithful though. It wasn’t your fault. It’s in their nature to destroy everything that is good. Even when things are amazing in their life, they somehow find a way to ruin them.
My psychopath ex always used to tell me she was ‘cursed.’ I always thought it was some ridiculous woo woo story but now I understand where she as coming from. She knew she was a monster. And the scary part is, she had confessed it to me in so many ways, so many times before… I just wasn’t listening.
Psychopath narcissists are highly intelligent creatures. They know that trust and loyalty in a relationship is crucial to its survival and one of the most important elements of sustaining it over the long term. And since this applies for any relationship whether it is romantic, platonic or professional, the psychopath can infiltrate, extract and destroy almost anyone they form a bond with. No matter how good the supply you provide is, part of their wiring and means of destruction will lead them to betray your trust and break your heart.
So why would they even bother with loyalty and monogamy when they have access to anyone they so choose? They don’t. Psychopaths and narcissists are unfaithful and always cheat on you.
ARE YOU A VICTIM OF A PSYCHOPATH NARCISSIST?
Narcissistic abuse is a perpetual nightmare not many can wake up from. The anxiety, trauma and PTSD can last a lifetime if one does not properly cut ties with their psychopathic tormentor and follow through with a specific plan for recovery.
However, this path can be a mystery to most victims of narcissists who’ve been discarded and dismantled. That’s why I’ve put together a step-by-step guide that will show you how to take the first step in establishing boundaries between you and your abuser. Study this guide carefully and do exactly what it says, especially if you have been recently discarded and left to rot by your narcissist ex.
These were the first instructions my mentor gave me back when I too was in hell; gasping for air from the suffocating panic and bed ridden anxiety my psychopath ex had left me in. I followed his guidance to the tee and instantly felt life breathing back into my soul… as will YOU when you follow these easy steps.
The information in this guide is crucial to your mental health and recovery. Do not hesitate or risk another minute of your life drifting into oblivion at the hands of a psychopath narcissist.
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