When dealing with a toxic psychopath or narcissist, you will be faced with many unexplained and unacceptable behavior that will no doubt cause you great torment and grief. One of the ways a psychopath tortures their victims is thru random narcissist ghosting. Random to the untrained person, but a textbook and predictable maneuver to a seasoned and fully recovered victim of narcissism.
In this article we are going to dive deep into the motivations that drive a psychopath to ghost you and why it is so effective in hurting the victim.
First of all let’s get something straight. Narcissists are monsters and feed off of narcissistic supply the same way vampires live off of the blood of humans. If the narcissist cannot get their fix of supply from you, they will look for another source. It is not uncommon for a psychopath narcissist to already have many other sources of supply while in a relationship with you.
The problem we face though is that when dating a narcissist, they expect that you will be their main source of supply. This is why you were targeted in the first place and why they made the decision to get into a relationship with you.
So when suddenly their needs are not met, at your expense, they will get angry and completely disenchanted with you and rather than having a rational human conversation with you to figure out what went wrong or perhaps trying to compromise with their loving partner, they will punish you instead.
That’s right, they feel you deserve punishment for not supplying them with what they need, even though they never met your needs in the relationship.
You are nothing to them. Remember that. It’s all about them. It’s always been about them.
One of the ways the psychopath tortures you is by disappearing or ignoring you. When the narcissist pulls the disappearing act, it’s safe to say they are upset at you and are out scouting for new supply. They know you will suffer and worry and will triple your efforts in reaching out to them and apologizing, even when you have absolutely nothing to apologize for.
Let’s not forget how narcissists never apologize when they are wrong, which is usually most of the time, but I digress.
Narcissist ghosting can be predicted after a huge fight or argument when you called them out on something or somehow managed to disrupt their plan.
I remember when my psychopath ex was orchestrating a scene where she was making me believe some crazy guy was stalking her when the truth was she was sleeping with him and cheating on me. When I began calling her out on the inconsistencies of her story, she threw a tantrum, stormed out of my house and ghosted me for a week.
During this time I was left alone with nothing by my distorted thoughts and a world of loneliness and fear of having lost her due to my accusations. She knew me too well, as all narcissists know exactly how to crush their victims.
Another motivation for narcissist ghosting is after the discard. Meaning after the toxic relationship has come to an abrupt end. The narcissist will ghost you and move on with their new source of supply and flaunt it all over social media for your eyes to see.
At first you will assume that they are sad over the breakup and missing you and just need some time to themselves to heal. However, once you realize the narcissist had ghosted you, it will hit you like a ton of bricks, especially if you are looking at their social media and notice how happy they are with their new lover.
This is why going no contact with the narcissist especially after a discard or a narcissistic disappearing act is of extreme importance to your mental health and recovery. These monsters are toxic and are doing this to you in order to torture you psychologically and emotionally abuse you. It is a sick and cruel act of emotional violence and you do not deserve it.
If you are in the midst of a narcissist ghosting you, use this golden opportunity to move on and never look back. Beat them at their own game and realize the monster has inadvertently tossed you a bone. Take it and run.
ARE YOU A VICTIM OF A PSYCHOPATH NARCISSIST?
Narcissistic abuse is a perpetual nightmare not many can wake up from. The anxiety, trauma and PTSD can last a lifetime if one does not properly cut ties with their psychopathic tormentor and follow through with a specific plan for recovery.
However, this path can be a mystery to most victims of narcissists who’ve been discarded and dismantled. That’s why I’ve put together a step-by-step guide that will show you how to take the first step in establishing boundaries between you and your abuser. Study this guide carefully and do exactly what it says, especially if you have been recently discarded and left to rot by your narcissist ex.
These were the first instructions my mentor gave me back when I too was in hell; gasping for air from the suffocating panic and bed ridden anxiety my psychopath ex had left me in. I followed his guidance to the tee and instantly felt life breathing back into my soul… as will YOU when you follow these easy steps.
The information in this guide is crucial to your mental health and recovery. Do not hesitate or risk another minute of your life drifting into oblivion at the hands of a psychopath narcissist.
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