Why do psychopaths, narcissists and toxic people have a reputation for being unfaithful in all their relationships? Probably because monsters have no sense of empathy, love or respect for life. Too simple for ya? Ok lets go a little deeper and really analyze this common question.
Being in a relationship with a narcissist will feel like a nightmare you can’t seem to wake from and yet we keep fighting to save it no matter how gloomy the future may seem. You will experience all sorts of panic and anxiety during the course of this toxic relationship which will only grow more toxic over time.
As things continue to decline, your anxiety will mutate into a feeling of dread that’s looming just around the corner. This feeling is something I refer to as narcissist impending doom.
When dealing with a toxic psychopath or narcissist, you will be faced with many unexplained and unacceptable behavior that will no doubt cause you great torment and grief. One of the ways a psychopath tortures their victims is thru random narcissist ghosting. Random to the untrained person, but a textbook and predictable maneuver to a seasoned and fully recovered victim of narcissism.
In this article we are going to dive deep into the motivations that drive a psychopath to ghost you and why it is so effective in hurting the victim.
With so many psychopath narcissists on the prowl, one has to wonder if they ever stumble across another psycho on their hunt for supply?
What happens when a psychopath dates another psychopath? Do narcissists actually date each other? How can this phenomena even manifest?
Truth is, it happens all the time. It’s inevitable. But not how you might think.
Social media sites such as Instagram and Twitch have recently become more than just a platform to share content and catch up with friends online.
With their rise in popularity, these social media sites have become a breeding ground for psychopath girls and narcissist women where they can target their victims and extract narcissistic supply from millions of innocent men all over the internet.
The rate of narcissistic abuse has been exponentially rising in record numbers over the past few years. Never before has this psychological form of torture been so exposed as it is today.
Largely in part to the ever growing addiction to social media, the online world has seen a rise in psychopath Twitch Thots who spend their day streaming lewd videos of their tits while asking for subs donations from their beta male audience.
It’s a great way for toxic broken girls to make some easy cash and get validation from the desperately lonely men who are too pathetic to meet women in real life.
It’s been well studied and documented that highly effective female narcissists and psychopaths target alpha males for top narcissistic supply and access to the better things in life.
Chances are you if you’ve been targeted by a female narcissist, it’s because you are a high quality man and have much to offer a woman.
However, this doesn’t necessarily mean that they will overlook a beta male if they feel they can extract enough narcissistic supply out of them as well.
Let’s take a look at the 3 most common ways a beta male provider gets used by a female narcissist or psychopath.
The past few years, we have seen a rise in the amount of information on narcissists and psychopaths like never before. More and more people are starting to become aware of narcissistic disorder while victims are openly coming out with their stories and seeking help.
The more awareness on psychopaths and narcissistic abuse is spread throughout the world, the more these predators are taking notice and counter striking in order to ensure their survival.
One of the tactics a psychopath uses to have the upper hand on their victims is to infiltrate their target’s society where they can extract information and destroy them from within their own safe places.
Let’s identify these narcissistic strategies so that we can be better prepared for their covert attacks.
Here’s a little story about a girl named Meryl. She was a textbook female narcissist / psychopath who was fascinated with snakes and even identified as someone with similar personality traits as those of a snake.
She once traveled to a distant land to have a special snake tattoo inked on her back from a popular artist whom she obviously cheated on her partner with, but that’s a given considering the nature of the female narcissist.
Meryl boasted about her incel guy friends who would do things for her including driving her to and from work, paying for her meals, buying her expensive gifts, etc.
There was even one fellow who let her live in his parent’s guest room, rent free for almost a year. This poor young lad thought of himself as a snake charmer because, in his poisoned mind, he felt he had tamed and charmed the wretched narcissistic serpentine herself.
The irony of the story is how Meryl would go around spreading smear campaigns about this kid behind his back and with a cynical laugh would mock his self imposed “snake charmer” title.
The truth is, Meryl had been the true charmer in this story and like a double agent, had been playing the role of BOTH the snake AND the snake charmer.
If you have recently been discarded or dumped by your narcissist ex, then you are probably feeling exactly what most of their previous victims felt and what their future victims are guaranteed to experience in the near future; loneliness.
Besides the unrelenting confusion, anxiety and ptsd symptoms running a muck in your head pretty much all throughout your day, at some point you will experience a greater sense of loneliness and despair than perhaps you have ever felt in your life.
This feeling of what I’d like to call post narcissistic discard loneliness stems from all the drama, attention, battles, arguments, love bombing, intense sex, gas lighting, tantrums, lies, and nightmares you experienced while dating this monster. The entirety of it all, despite being an extremely toxic situation to be in, was overwhelming to say the least. So overwhelming in fact that life may seem a little less exciting now that the narcissist is gone.
However, this type of psychological torment takes time to understand and even more time to heal from. The loneliness you are feeling after being discarded by your narcissist ex is normal and it’s will eventually subside. It’s ok to temporarily feel this way, it’s all part of the process and things will get so much better in the months to come.
Despite your current feelings of loneliness, I promise you that once you heal from this trauma and regain your strength and power back, you will deem this discard as the best thing that could’ve happened to you because the alternative would have you STILL BEING IN A RELATIONSHIT WITH THE NARCISSIST. (that’s not a typo)
After being discarded by a narcissist or psychopath, most victims obsessively wonder if their ex is actually better off without them. It’s a common curiosity to have especially in the condition that the narcissist leave their victims in; sometimes questioning their own validity or purpose in this world.
While this type of question can be of a subjective matter, many people feel that only the extreme, machine like Terminator-type of psychopath is legitimately better off without you after making their calculated decision that continuing to have you in their life would not benefit them in any way.
These types of psychopaths are on a clear cut mission and get no value in torturing you for fun or boredom because they have much larger, global scale type of goals and probably saw you as a temporary asset. Once they got what they needed, they discarded you the same way we discard a scented candle once it’s been completely burned out and useless to us.