Why do psychopaths, narcissists and toxic people have a reputation for being unfaithful in all their relationships? Probably because monsters have no sense of empathy, love or respect for life. Too simple for ya? Ok lets go a little deeper and really analyze this common question.
Being in a relationship with a narcissist will feel like a nightmare you can’t seem to wake from and yet we keep fighting to save it no matter how gloomy the future may seem. You will experience all sorts of panic and anxiety during the course of this toxic relationship which will only grow more toxic over time.
As things continue to decline, your anxiety will mutate into a feeling of dread that’s looming just around the corner. This feeling is something I refer to as narcissist impending doom.
When dealing with a toxic psychopath or narcissist, you will be faced with many unexplained and unacceptable behavior that will no doubt cause you great torment and grief. One of the ways a psychopath tortures their victims is thru random narcissist ghosting. Random to the untrained person, but a textbook and predictable maneuver to a seasoned and fully recovered victim of narcissism.
In this article we are going to dive deep into the motivations that drive a psychopath to ghost you and why it is so effective in hurting the victim.
With so many psychopath narcissists on the prowl, one has to wonder if they ever stumble across another psycho on their hunt for supply?
What happens when a psychopath dates another psychopath? Do narcissists actually date each other? How can this phenomena even manifest?
Truth is, it happens all the time. It’s inevitable. But not how you might think.
Social media sites such as Instagram and Twitch have recently become more than just a platform to share content and catch up with friends online.
With their rise in popularity, these social media sites have become a breeding ground for psychopath girls and narcissist women where they can target their victims and extract narcissistic supply from millions of innocent men all over the internet.
The rate of narcissistic abuse has been exponentially rising in record numbers over the past few years. Never before has this psychological form of torture been so exposed as it is today.
Largely in part to the ever growing addiction to social media, the online world has seen a rise in psychopath Twitch Thots who spend their day streaming lewd videos of their tits while asking for subs donations from their beta male audience.
It’s a great way for toxic broken girls to make some easy cash and get validation from the desperately lonely men who are too pathetic to meet women in real life.
The past few years, we have seen a rise in the amount of information on narcissists and psychopaths like never before. More and more people are starting to become aware of narcissistic disorder while victims are openly coming out with their stories and seeking help.
The more awareness on psychopaths and narcissistic abuse is spread throughout the world, the more these predators are taking notice and counter striking in order to ensure their survival.
One of the tactics a psychopath uses to have the upper hand on their victims is to infiltrate their target’s society where they can extract information and destroy them from within their own safe places.
Let’s identify these narcissistic strategies so that we can be better prepared for their covert attacks.
Female narcissists are only after one thing: The highest level resource of narcissistic supply.
This means, they will target the man with the greatest potential of providing them with everything they want or need in order to arrive at their goals.
This usually includes, money, fame, status, shelter, skill sets, discipline, knowledge, etc… and of course great sex (although female narcissists are known to use sex as a bargaining tool and will take it away as a form of torture and punishment at any given moment.)
Female narcissists, like most women, are very attracted to a man who possesses all of these assets, especially one with charm, confidence, and oozing with masculinity; The Alpha Male.
Alpha males are the female narcissists’ primary targets for they can extract the most narcissistic supply from them while experiencing an incredible life and feeling totally satisfied in the bedroom (until it’s time to devalue and discard their victim as per their default disordered programming.)
So where does the beta male fit into all this? Why do white knight beta males fall prey to the female narcissist or psychopath?
It seems to me in recent times, the term gaslighting has been receiving a lot more buzz than ever before. Or maybe it’s just my RAS (reticular activating system) focusing on anything and everything relating to psychopaths and narcissistic abuse. Either way this is a term I had never heard of in my life until I got out of a toxic relationship with a narcissist.
I still remember the first time my mentor explained to me what gaslighting was after I had given him details of all the things my psychopath ex would do to me.
It was fascinating to learn that there was an actual term for this type of wicked behavior, making it much easier to explain the level of psychological horror I had experienced while dating my narcissist ex.
So your friend is dating a psychopath narcissist?
Hold on tight. We’re in for a ride.
Here’s a scenario every survivor of narcissistic abuse will come across at some point or another, but most likely sooner than you think.
It’s the inevitable situation we’ve all found ourselves in not long after solving one of our biggest challenges or learning something of excellence that forever altered our lives for the better.
It’s the old time tested urge to tell everybody else what we’ve learned and how they should try things OUR way because it’ll be so much better for them.
In this case we are talking about a situation where our friend is dating a psychopath narcissist but they just won’t listen to our words of advice nor will they take any action in positioning themselves for a preemptive escape.
Victims of psychopathic and narcissistic abuse (the many) who have healed, recovered and risen above the darkness (the few) develop a keen instinct to spot narcissists a mile away.
It’s like we are given a new pair of glasses which allow us to see behind the mask and facade these toxic creatures masquerade under.
Reaching this level of mastery can take many months or even years of relentless education on the subject, strict discipline in sustaining the No Contact Rule, and a never ending spree of self validating stances and actions against anyone who even comes close to crossing your newly established boundaries.