So your friend is dating a psychopath narcissist?
Hold on tight. We’re in for a ride.
Here’s a scenario every survivor of narcissistic abuse will come across at some point or another, but most likely sooner than you think.
It’s the inevitable situation we’ve all found ourselves in not long after solving one of our biggest challenges or learning something of excellence that forever altered our lives for the better.
It’s the old time tested urge to tell everybody else what we’ve learned and how they should try things OUR way because it’ll be so much better for them.
In this case we are talking about a situation where our friend is dating a psychopath narcissist but they just won’t listen to our words of advice nor will they take any action in positioning themselves for a preemptive escape.
This happens quite often with new born Christians, vegans, cross-fitters, etc.
Not that there’s anything wrong with any of these lifestyles but the point I’m making here is how we all want everyone to experience the new found glory we have discovered.
We want everyone to experience the enlightenment we’ve felt.
But the sad truth is… No One Gives A Fvk.
Especially someone who is deeply entangled in the dark web of a narcissist.
No matter how much evidence of narcissistic abuse we show them thru videos, books, articles, websites, life testimonials, etc, they just won’t budge nor acknowledge that they are living with or dating a psychopath.
It can become so frustrating to watch our best friend or loved one perpetually suffer at the whims of a toxic narcissistic individual and not do a single thing about it.
Especially when they continuously cry over the phone to us about their situation and complain about their miserable relationshit day in and day out.
It’s draining to listen to our friend rant about their depression and anxiety while showing no desire or inclination whatsoever to make any change to their toxic situation.
Sometimes these poor souls are practically re-telling OUR story, triggering our emotions along the way because we can empathize with them completely.
Empathy; That thing the narcissist they are dating is completely incapable of. And yet we wonder why they keep crying on our shoulder.
You know FOR A FACT that your friend is dating a psychopath narcissist.
You’e watched your friend being manipulated and belittled in front of you by their narcissist tormentor almost to the point of embarrassment and ridicule yet they do not have an ounce of strength in their tortured soul to stand up for themselves, much less walk away from the toxic relationship.
They would rather suffer in the catacombs of hell with Satan herself than to be alone.
What’s crazy is how your friend’s psychopathic partner has probably already shown you their red flags that one time you all went out to dinner together.
Remember that other time they invited you over for drinks? I’m sure the narcissist made some questionable statements at some point in conversation that evening.
Perhaps bringing to light some sort of disorder they’re seeing a therapist for, just to see if or how you react.
This is all a game to them.
If they’ve shown YOU their red flags, believe me they have shown them to your friend many times. Narcissists adore leaving clues of their true form scattered around the playing field in hopes of causing confusion.
This is another way a psychopath gaslights their victims.
If you’ve experienced this situation in any of the above examples then you know exactly what I mean and your blood must be boiling right now.
The reason your friend won’t listen to you is because they have completely lost themselves in the shadows of their narcissist romantic partner. They don’t know who they are anymore and have fallen completely into a sick Stockholm syndrome love spell with their psychopathic significant other.
They don’t know what a healthy relationship is and subconsciously they think this is how things are supposed to be. They have this false hope that if they keep pleasing their narcissist lover, things will eventually get back to how they were when they were first dating; something a survivor of narcissistic abuse knows far too well is completely impossible.
They are too blind to see how destructive their relationship has become because they have been slowly poison dripped for months, even years.
The more you try to help them, the more they shun you. Deep inside they know they are in hell but they are too weak at this point to save themselves and they interpret your help and wisdom as shame.
They are ashamed of their weakness but little do they know that this is all part of the narcissistic spell their partner has cast on them.
It’s all part of the programming that has been taking place since day 1.
There are moments where you are able to spend time with your friend without the demon tagging along and you can tell they feel FREE.
An overwhelming sense of relief and joy over takes them.
They may even show signs that they finally get it and suddenly start making promises of change and revolt. For a split second they sound empowered…
…until they receive that dreaded text or notice a missed call from their narcissist partner.
Suddenly, that feeling of impending doom takes over their body and mind and once again, right before your very eyes, your friend is gone.
Lost to the wicked grooming and manipulation of their psychopath partner.
Next time you realize your friend is dating a psychopath narcissist or dating someone with bpd (borderline personality disorder), do yourself a favor and let them have their own experience.
Remember the old saying, you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink?
We can show our friends the way, introduce them to the websites, the books, the audio tapes, the videos, hell even show them examples of how their misery mirrors the misery WE once experienced when WE were dating a psychopath narcissist, but if they don’t follow thru or genuinely ask you for help, this means they are NOT ready nor willing to change.
Their time will come.
As anti-narcissist warriors, it is our duty to expose the psychopaths and spread awareness but we can’t force others to make decisions they can’t make for themselves.
Remember to never attempt teaching a pig to fly.
They can’t do it and it bothers the pig.
ARE YOU A VICTIM OF A PSYCHOPATH NARCISSIST?
Narcissist abuse is a perpetual nightmare not many can wake up from. The anxiety, trauma and PTSD can last a lifetime if one does not properly cut ties with their psychopathic tormentor and follow through with a specific plan for recovery.
However, this path can be a mystery to most victims of narcissists who’ve been discarded and dismantled. That’s why I’ve put together a step-by-step guide that will show you how to take the first step in establishing boundaries between you and your abuser. Study this guide carefully and do exactly what it says, especially if you have been recently discarded and left to rot by your narcissist ex.
These were the first instructions my mentor gave me back when I too was in hell; gasping for air from the suffocating panic and bed ridden anxiety my psychopath ex had left me in. I followed his guidance to the tee and instantly felt life breathing back into my soul… as will YOU when you follow these easy steps.
The information in this guide is crucial to your mental health and recovery. Do not hesitate or risk another minute of your life drifting into oblivion at the hands of a psychopath narcissist.
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