Female narcissists are only after one thing: The highest level resource of narcissistic supply.
This means, they will target the man with the greatest potential of providing them with everything they want or need in order to arrive at their goals.
This usually includes, money, fame, status, shelter, skill sets, discipline, knowledge, etc… and of course great sex (although female narcissists are known to use sex as a bargaining tool and will take it away as a form of torture and punishment at any given moment.)
Female narcissists, like most women, are very attracted to a man who possesses all of these assets, especially one with charm, confidence, and oozing with masculinity; The Alpha Male.
Alpha males are the female narcissists’ primary targets for they can extract the most narcissistic supply from them while experiencing an incredible life and feeling totally satisfied in the bedroom (until it’s time to devalue and discard their victim as per their default disordered programming.)
So where does the beta male fit into all this? Why do white knight beta males fall prey to the female narcissist or psychopath?
Well, now let’s analyze what a beta male brings to the table.
The beta male will most likely put the female narcissist on a pedestal and treat her like his queen, granting her every wish and showering her with diamonds and jewels.
He will put her first in all areas of his life, dismissing his own self needs and boundaries. He will cancel plans with his guy friends, reschedule appointments, drive an hour in the opposite part of town if needed, just to please the female narcissist.
The beta male will be the first to fall in love with her (not like the female narcissist can fall in love anyhow)
The female narcissist knows this all too well so she exploits the beta male for all that he is willing to give.
She will use him as her main provider while giving him back nothing in return. This only leads the beta male to try harder to win her affection by providing her with more and more narcissistic supply.
Meanwhile, the female narcissist will be out slaying multiple alpha men behind his back… and most likely already in another relationship with one of them.
But wait a minute, isn’t that what all narcissists and psychopaths do anyway? Extract narcissistic supply from their victims while cheating on them and grooming a future victim along the way until they are ready to discard the old and move on with the new?
Well, yes. So why are we even talking about this?
The beta male makes it very easy for the female narcissist to infect it’s host and execute her wicked plans at his expense.
While the Alpha male is out conquering business, women, fitness, traveling, hustling, etc… the beta male sits at home day dreaming of his queen all day long.
This makes the female narcissist’s life easier and stress free for she is certain she won’t have to go to war with the beta male when she returns home from her daily manslaughter.
He will be her best friend and blindly support her and nurture her in every way.
This is the complete opposite of an alpha male who’s instinct is to fight and challenge the female narcissist’s bratty ways and wicked undermining.
This is why a female narcissist has to work harder to psychological mind fvk an alpha male.
Even after she’s taken possession of his soul, it’s still hard work for her to sustain her level of control over his dominant personality when compared to the weaker, more submissive beta male.
Seeing the female narcissist happy, makes Jack the Chode a happy boy.
So along come the white knights; the beta males that think they can FIX the female narcissist.
These are the nice guys that think THEY will be the ones to help the female narcissist find true happiness and purpose; the ones who will save her… but it’s all futile let me tell you.
White knight beta males fall prey to female narcissists because they see them as a ‘work in progress’ and they have this delusion that over time, the female narcissist will see the light and fall in love with her savior after he slays the dragon and rescues her from the tower.
WRONG!
The Female Narcissist IS the Dragon… and The Snake, The Succubus and The Beast.
Don’t be fooled. This ain’t no fairy tale.
“Don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved.” (sorry I couldn’t resist)
Not only do broken girls HATE when a white knight beta male tries to fix them but, much like attempting to teach a pig to fly, They Can’t Be Fixed.
Especially not a disordered psychopathic female narcissist who’s doomed for life until she is reunited with Satan in Hell for all eternity.
But wait, isn’t dating a female narcissist hell on earth?
Yes! Damnit, stop distracting me. This isn’t the point.
Let’s get one thing clear, psychopaths and narcissists are NOT stupid.
They may be disordered scurge but ironically enough they are highly intelligent, highly functioning individuals.
This is what makes them so dangerous to society and why we must educate ourselves as much as we can about the ins and outs of the female narcissist’s mind if we are to survive and thrive in the dating scene or in a long term relationship.
ARE YOU A VICTIM OF A PSYCHOPATH NARCISSIST?
Narcissist abuse is a perpetual nightmare not many can wake up from. The anxiety, trauma and PTSD can last a lifetime if one does not properly cut ties with their psychopathic tormentor and follow through with a specific plan for recovery.
However, this path can be a mystery to most victims of narcissists who’ve been discarded and dismantled. That’s why I’ve put together a step-by-step guide that will show you how to take the first step in establishing boundaries between you and your abuser. Study this guide carefully and do exactly what it says, especially if you have been recently discarded and left to rot by your narcissist ex.
These were the first instructions my mentor gave me back when I too was in hell; gasping for air from the suffocating panic and bed ridden anxiety my psychopath ex had left me in. I followed his guidance to the tee and instantly felt life breathing back into my soul… as will YOU when you follow these easy steps.
The information in this guide is crucial to your mental health and recovery. Do not hesitate or risk another minute of your life drifting into oblivion at the hands of a psychopath narcissist.
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Hey man, found you through Tyler’s new video. First of all; thanks for sharing all this content man, gonna read it now and you’ll probably save me.
Would love to talk with you eather trough email or Facebook messenger I don’t really care.
Met this girl one month ago, thought she was perfect: ended lawyer school and now working at a bank, takes care of her body and eats well. Thing is she has really negative energy, she talks shit about some people, she thinks she is the centre of the fucking world, and she doesn’t get on well with her parents.
At least she talks well about her ex’s.
Now she has started some drama with me about silly things and miss understandings. Don’t really care about leaving her, but don’t know if it’s only a temporal thing where she is stressed because she just started this new job or she is crazy.
Thx, email me if you can.
@Asier
I’m hearing a lot of rationalization and justification of her negative energy and behavior. I once thought the toxicity from my psychopath ex was temporary until it cast a shadow on my life and everything she touched became tainted with her venom. Psychopath’s are really great lawyers for they can lie really well and convince the jury on a fabricated story. Be careful.
Hi, I have a situation with a girl who’m i know for almost a year now, which i’m not too close currently, and although i wouldn’t really throw her into the category of psychopath or narcissist yet, but she showed some of the signs throught the time, and i’m thinking now if i would just put her aside or completely cut her out from my life. If you have time and can talk about this i’d be gratefull.
Best regards
@Matevž Oblak
I can’t advise you on what to do but I can share my experience… you see, the soul knows more than our rational thinking brain and sometimes it sends a signal to our gut and we choose to ignore it and then we experience pain. Many times I had the gut instinct to drop my psychopath ex, but I went against my gut, went against all the red flags, and I got burned. I have found life to be easier when I listen to my gut, even if I’m wrong, for there’s no greater regret than falling for a trap you knew you could have avoided. I only wish I would’ve listened to all the warning signs sooner.
Hello! I find your observations spot on and your use of classic Fairy Tale roles extremely helpful (hopefully) in adding mental visuals to the equation (for those who are new to the cycle). I do take strong issue with one base premise though – that there are only Female Soul-Sucking Psychopaths.
I do realize that you are writing from the Male perspective and as the author, you can certainly choose to stay that path. If that’s the case, it would also make more to rename/rebrand your group title on MeetUp, which doesn’t indicate the group is for men.
Namaste from another on a healing path…
@Yyasky
Hello there. The Meetup nor the Website is gender based. Only the article you commented on. The social construct is that most Narcissists are Men, but the rise of the Female Narcissist is real, especially in the new world of Instagram and social media. Feel free to replace the words she with he or her with him since the patterns of this disorder is identical between genders.
Right here is the right site for anybody who hopes to understand this topic. You understand a whole lot its almost hard to argue with you (not that I really will need to…HaHa). You definitely put a new spin on a subject which has been written about for a long time. Excellent stuff, just great!
I appreciate the appreciation lol. Just trying to help people understand what’s really going on so they can take the proper action and start the healing process immediately. The longer we stay in limbo, the longer the predator continues to feast on our emotions and suck us dry of our energy and supply. Hope you are doing well and thanks for the support!